My Boyfriend is Jealous – Exactly what do I Do?

by admin on July 12, 2011

My boyfriend is jealousWhenever your boyfriend is jealous, it can be quite difficult to understand him and his behavior. It does not make things easier when jealousy show up in different shapes and breaks out for various reasons. Maybe you have no idea how to deal with your boyfriends jealousy and you still love him, take a look down the page some of the most typical scenarios which could make your boyfriend jealous and what you can do about it.

My boyfriend is jealous because of handsome man

Sometimes, man find him threatened if he discover his girlfriend is conversing with a guy who look more appealing than him. Also, if your boyfriend haven’t seen this person before he will become a lot more jealous. Physical appearance in not just a priority with men, also women. Your boyfriend can wind up being jealous of a gay you’re talking to or possibly interested in, or perhaps an actor you particularly like. Sometimes simply mentioning to your boyfriend how good he look once in awhile is usually good enough, however, if you don’t think that is enough, its quite simple to phrase your boyfriend when he isn’t with you.

For instance, in case your boyfriend is sitting around your blog site or Facebook, surprise him by expressing how good looking you think your boyfriend is or write something sweet about him. I’m not telling you to write directly on your wall “I have soo hot boyfriend”, that would be too obvious or silly, a better way to do it is to respond to your friends post. Maybe if your friend is posting about his/her great day, respond by saying you also had a great day with your boyfriend. Because your boyfriend is watching your every move on Facebook, he will definitely see your writings. Unexpected love confession, can do a wonder for your relationship.

My boyfriend is jealous of my boy-friends

It may be a confusing for you if your boyfriend is jealous of all the male friends you have, specially if you dont think they are attractive or very good looking. If this is the case, your boyfriends jealusy dont have to be linked to their looks. If you are showing any emotional closeness to you male friends in front of him, that can be enough to make him go crazy.

Also, be aware of your male friend are good looking guys, your boyfriend could easily get extra jelous. If your boyfriend just mind their kindness towards you, this may not even be your fault. Are you getting hugs and/or kiss on the cheeks? Are you texting each other “i miss you” with some romantic sounds? If your answer is yes, its possible thats the reason of your boyfriends jealously. Your communication with your male friends may seem innocent to you, but if your boyfriend does not like it, I recomment you put some limits on how you communicate with your male friends.

My boyfriend is jealous every time i spend time with my female friends.

It may sound strange, but sometimes its the case! The reason for this could be you boyfriend thinks you spend more time with your female friends than with him and you like more to be stay with them than you like to stay with him.

The best way to deal with this is to bring your boyfriend with you once in a while and help him to make friends with your female friends. If he sees that your female friends are nice and you want to bring him with you, he wont be threatened as much. Even better, if your female friends have boyfriends too, ask them to bring their boyfriends as weel, and encourage your boyfriend to make friendship with them. Next time you go out with your friends, your boyfriend can have guys to hang out with, and these guys know exactly how he feels.

There is no reason why my boyfriend is jealous of almost everything

Maybe your boyfriend is having some issues. If thats the case, it can be hard to find a reason for his jealousy. The best you can do is to talk about it, he will understand you if he loves you. Maybe he is depressed because of his live in not going to the direction as i wish it would go, maybe there are some unresolved problems with his family or parents.

These kind of jelousy is completely out of your control. Because of that, you must show is all the love you can. Ask him to seek professional assistance, or learn to get over it, because he is the only one who can help himself. If he accept your suggestions, he is mature enough to be in a relationship, but if he dont listen to you and think you are just talking bullshit, then you should consider to look for another guy.

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